http://www.telegraphnepal.com/headline/2011-11-05/does-nepal-need-senator-wolfs-us-dollars-for-its-survival-.html

I am curious to know what Non Returning Nepalis ( NRN ) have to say abou this.

LOL. Nepali women in Nepal have been slapped around by all the men in Nepal  for centuries because we are physically weaker than the men. I'm happy to see Wolf slapping Nepali men around a little bit to show his power. It's time someone showed these arrogant Nepali men who has the real power. It's obvious that Nepali men in many spheres that Nepali men don't know how to handle power.

All over Nepal, so many Nepali men get drunk and come home and physically abuse their women. That is all Wolf is doing. He is taking his power and is slapping the Nepali men around. He is showing that Nepali men are beggars. They are China's beggars and America's beggars. And which ever one threatens to not throw some paisa in the Nepali man's begging bowl, both the nations know that Nepal will limp it's crippled legs towards that nation. That is exactly what Wolf is threatening.

LOL. It's time someone showed Nepali men their aukat.

Kudos to Senator Wolf!

nanu, Nepali logne manche sanga kina esto rees?

Citizen of Nepal Daju,

Jhukera Pranam,
Jun Nepali logni manchhe haru le mero Nepali didi baini haru lai maya gardainan, testa logni mannche lai mero salaam kina?

We let go Bhutanese. Now it is time for Tibetans to go. If nepal cannot afford to give them a decent dignified life to live and the world is willing to help them, then give them a transit visa. Let them go wherever they want to go. After all, we gave 85000 visa to Bhutanese. Then why not Tibetans? Why re we so bias towards them. The whole focking leadership is bias towards Himalayan Region People and Culture anyway.

If we kicked out Gyane and Rana to preserve our universal rights, dont Tibetan deserve the same in some basic forms. So give them transit visa and lets send them respectfully.

While I agree with Rasika above, I don't understand how Wolf is slapping Nepali Men?

As per the article, the US lawmaker is threatening to cut off US aid to Nepal if the latter continues to threaten and harm Tibetan refugees.

Did I miss anything?

Rasika Kanchi:

Why do most nepalese women have the same statement. Nepali KTA is doing this and that. For your kind information Nepal including USA is a male dominated society. The difference is women here have a little more rights here than women in Nepal.
I surely bet you are in the US. Check for yourself and Google in the thing called Male dominance around the world. Nepal will come nowhere close to Saudi and some other Arab countries in dominating women. Male dominace has been there before your great great great grand mother gave birth to your great great great grand father. Its simply the nature of this creation, males generally do empower women physically and in few other sectors. 
Don't get me wrong its given by the nature. We can't help it. And what has this blog to anything with slapping a Male Nepali? Where is the connection? Girl if you hate males that much I suggest you stay away from us, marry a female and yes if you want to be in our side change your self to be one of us. We would love to have you in our side. 
And reading your previous blogs it seems like you have messed with a lot of Nepali Males or any males. I surely do think you enjoyed the ride didn't ya? So to my dear New sajha blogger post something that is relevant to a serious topic like this and if you hate us... Sure give us a chance to love you and see how Good a Nepali Man can be! And lastly don't be Khudoing Khadaing Nepalese people coz your mentality needs a major clean up, in other words called reformating your Head Drive!

Thanks 

manche logne or swasne jako bhaye pani galat kura galat hunca..
well..wolf le je gare pani jyms bond lai chahi kasaile kehi garna sakdaina..neither wolf nor bear..bear mean dariwal pm...
sabaijana jharpat hun..bakwas garchan..

Dear Vyrus,

Thank you for your sweet words. It was a pleasure to read . Please keep the wisdom flowing.

The ones beating my Nepali didi bahinis in their homes are not from Saudi Arabia or America. They are Nepali.

Rasika,

Thank you for speaking out for Nepali women.

Hey 191karma,

If a Mexican, or any other person, enters US illegally and, when caught by the authorities, asks for a transit visa to enter Canada, do you think the US government, and that redneck Wolfe, will oblige?

If not, what makes you stupid Tibetans so special to expect otherwise?

Citizen Brother:

For your information, US Govt has provided 85,000 refugee visa to Bhutanese saranarthi and 10,000 to Tibetans. Out of that 5,000 visas are for Tibetan Refugees in Nepal. If Hamro Sarkar cannot provide some basic rights as any human being needs, then we dont have a right to hold them. lets give them Transit Visa and let them go where these Tibetans feel they are safe. After all, we fought against ranas, monarchy and may be (jerks like you) for the rights of janjatis.

Of course being from Taplejing, I share religion and tradition with Tibetan and I admire what they have been going thru.

If I were you I would not call these Tibetans stupid. There are lots of things that we can learn from them. But I doubt that since we have a BIG EGO.

Agree with 191karma on humanitarian ground but if you think america is so for tibetans ask them to post sanctions on china, they can't and won't piss china off. How can they expect small country like nepal to piss china off? It is double standard by US, bau lai sakdina, aru lai gandina type.

These Thugs has triple standard. If they can , will go down to  the low level if can not stay quiet, in case fo china.

This mo*ran has to find the cemetry first or crimate when they die. Government can not allow them to burried in open and govevrnment space. Or Buy cheap land little far away from Kathmandu. We do not want to see the CHIHAN DADA. Who will take care of our wish??????

 Rasika Kanchi,


You can't generalize one two three Nepali men to all of nepali men. And thanks for liking my read... now follow thru it.  You will be a lot happier. Seems like you had been abused besides don't know what you have been thru with the MALE caracter. If so, we are all sorry but clear your head not all Nepalese men are like that. Amen!

'Pressing Nepal on Tibet uncalled for'

KATHMANDU: An influential figure who advises the congressional Nepal caucus in Washington today said Nepal was doing its utmost on the Tibetan refugees issue given its proximity with China and piling pressure on Nepal at this point of time was not called for.

Jemes Rinaldi, who has also been helping Tibetan refugees reach India and the US for the last 20 years, said it was unfortunate that one his country’s congressman warned to cut aid to Nepal over the Tibetan refugee issue. Rinaldi was referring to a statement from Republican Congressman Frank Wolf, warning that his country will cut aid to Nepal if it did not grant visas to Tibetan refugees. “If they’re not willing to do it, then they don’t share our values. If they don’t share our values, we do not want to share our dollars,” Wolf had said.

Not only do such warnings undermine Nepal’s long support to the cause without affecting its relations with its northern neighbour but will also be counterproductive, held Rinaldi, international director at Himalayan Aid, an NGO working in for Tibetan refugees, told this daily. The congressman had argued that as Nepal was bound by a ‘gentleman’s agreement’ with western powers and the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees to grant safe passage to the Tibetan refugees and allow UNHCR to take them to India. But Rinaldi said there no such agreement was ever made. “Nepal is acting only on humanitarian grounds given its historical ties with Tibet,” he said. If the West piles undue pressure on Nepal, it will also face similar pressure from China, he said. “This will ultimately be counter-productive for Tibetans.”

Renaldi flayed ‘Tibetan support groups’ that were using western funds to serve their own vested interests. Aid reaching the refugees has plummeted in the last five-six years, he said. But the expenses of the organisations working to ‘helping refugees’ has increased significantly, he added.

“China says there’s an influence from outsider groups,” said Rinaldi, adding “I should say sadly that China is right. It is the Tibet groups who are forcing Nepal to use adopt tough measures. But they say Nepal is acting under pressure from China.”

Accusing Nepal of failing to help refugees and inciting refugees in Kathmandu unnecessarily at a time when the country has been granting passage to refugees and of facilitating refugees to reach UNHCR will only augment problems for Nepal, he reckoned. “With Tibetans agitating, the government will have to deploy more security personnel bowing to Chinese pressure,” argued Rinaldi.

Tibetan lobby groups are wrong, he said. Nepal has done a fair job handling the issue, he said. Threats such as the one issued by Wolf, a member of the House Appropriation Committee related to America’s foreign aid, are not called for, said Rinaldi. “Handling the situation is already a tough ask for Nepal.” The Nepali government been reiterating its one-China policy time and again. Rinaldi said, “If they push harder, it will make Nepal’s job at the border more difficult.” “Nepal is doing its best given the circumstances. Nepal can do more and should do more. But we understand they’re under pressure,” he said, adding, “Wolf’s comment on Nepal is extremely excessive.”


http://www.thehimalayantimes.com/fullNews.php?headline=%27Pressing+Nepal+on+Tibet+uncalled+for%27&NewsID=309875

 @Rashika Kanchi,

First of, it is quite pitiful to think it is a "Slap" to anyone - it is NOT. And even if it was, it would be to the entire Nepalese population, not to the Nepalese men alone. It was a senator showing off his arrogance and power to show off his threats to cut off the aids. His arrogance and idiocy is certainly not a slap to anyone but merely a display of his very character. While it is a fact that Nepal should be at least a little more humane while handling the Tibetan refugee crisis. Our leaders should take a stand against China to handle this critical issue in a proper and humanitarian manner while not disrupting the diplomatic relations with China - any one smart and bold enough in the radar? Let's hope for the best and see if BRB's government can achieve this.

Second, like someone mentioned above, Nepal's record of male dominace, currently, is a whole lot better than many countries, many of which are so called 'develop countries' and including India. Yes, of course there is a prevelance of male dominace rooted in some parts of the country, but that thought is changing rapidly over time with the younger generation - be it educated or not that educated. Honestly, it was surprising to me to see Ms. RK even talk about male dominace in Nepal in the language it is elaborated. 

Finally, when someone points out a finger at the nation, it's is about national unity, not about national gender. 

शरणार्थीको मानव अधिकार र खम्पा काण्ड -

क) अमेरिकाजस्तो शक्तिमान देशले नेपालमा भएका शरणार्थीहरूमध्ये विशेष गरी तिब्बती शरणार्थीहरूप्रति माया, ममता, चासो राख्नु मानव अधिकारको आँखाबाट अति राम्रो पक्ष हो । यद्यपि नेपालको हकमा शरणार्थीहरूको मामिलामा बाध्यकारी हुनु पर्दैन । किनकि नेपालले यूएन रेफुजी कन्भेसन, असाइलम कन्भेन्सन र स्टेटलेस कन्भेसनमा सही गरेको छैन । आफ्नो देशको संस्कारलाई 'वसुधैव कुटुम्बकम्' को मान्यतामा देशमा आएका विदेशी शरणार्थीहरूलाई ससम्मान राखेको छ । यो नेपालको महानता हो । लेखकले भनेजस्तै यातनाविरुद्धकै प्रतिकारमा मात्र सबै तिब्बती नेपाल छिरेका भने पक्कै होइनन्, त्यसमा अरू कारणहरू पनि छन् ।

-ख) अमेरिकालगायत केही देशले तिब्बती शरणार्थीको मामलामा मानव अधिकारको नामबाट सहानुभूति राख्दा नेपालले आफ्नो आन्तरिक सुरक्षा र छिमेकी मित्रराष्ट्रहरूको सुरक्षामा अवश्य झस्कनु जरुरी छ । ०३१ सालमा नेपालले मुस्ताङ जिल्ला र दार्चुलामा समेत हजारौं तिब्बती खम्पा सेनाविरुद्ध सैनिक कारबाही गर्नुपर्‍यो । ती खम्पाहरूले नेपाली भूमिमा ब्यारेक बनाई, नेपालबाट तिब्बतमा रहेका चिनियाँ सेना र अधिकारीमाथि आक्रामक कारबाही गर्न थाले । जसको कारणले चीन र नेपालकै सम्बन्धमा प्रश्नचिन्ह खडा भयो र चीनले नेपाली भूमिमा रहेका खम्पाविरुद्ध हमला गर्ने भएपछि नेपाललाई ठूलो समस्या पर्‍यो । त्यसबेला राजा वीरेन्द्रले कूटनीतिक पहलबाट खम्पाविरुद्धको कारबाही नेपालले गरी चीनविरुद्ध खम्पाले गर्ने हमला -रेड) रोक्ने वचनबद्धता गरेपछि खम्पाहरूले दिएको झन्झटबाट नेपालले बिनाकारण दुःख पाएर ठूलो सैनिक कारबाही गर्नुपर्‍यो । जसलाई इतिहासमा खम्पा काण्ड भनिन्छ । उक्त काण्डको नालीबेली केलाउँदा, तिब्बती शरणार्थी खम्पाहरूलाई अमेरिका लगेर तालिम दिएको, हातहतियार र पैसासमेतको सहयोग दिएर खम्पाहरूलाई नेपालको अर्को छिमेकी देशमा 'हार्वोर' गरी राखेको पाइयो । जसका लागि लेखककै देशका पूर्वसीआईए अधिकारी जोन केनेथ कनासले लेखेको 'अर्फान अफ द कोल्ड वार-अमेरिका एन्ड द टिबटियन स्ट्रगल फर सर्भाइबल' पुस्तकमा शब्द र चित्रबाट प्रस्टाइएको छ । नेपाली भाषाबाट पनि त्यसबारे थुप्रै सामग्री प्रकाशित भइसकेका छन् । त्योभन्दा पनि ठूलो प्रमाण खम्पाहरूबाट खोसिएका अमेरिकी हतियारहरू हाल पनि नेपाल सरकारसँग सुरक्षित छ । सो स्थितिमा 'अगुल्टाले हानेको कुकुर बिजुली चम्कँदा तर्सन्छ' भन्ने उखानलाई सही मानेर अमेरिकी र तिब्बती शरणार्थी सम्बन्धमा नेपाल चिन्तित हुनु अन्यथा होइन । भोलिका दिनमा ती घटना नदोहोरिएला भन्ने ग्यारेन्टी

छैन, पक्कै पनि ।

-ग) अर्को कुरा हजारौं भुटानी शरणार्थीहरू अमेरिकाले आफ्नो देशमा लगेको छ भने तिब्बती शरणार्थीलाई किन लेखकको सुविधा सम्पन्न देशमा नलाने ? त्यहाँ पैसा छ, मानव अधिकार छ, अवसर छ । नेपालजस्तो गरिब देशमा नै तिब्बती शरणार्थी राख्नुपर्ने किन ? अनि नेपालमा मानव अधिकार नभएपछि अमेरिका किन नलग्ने ? यस पक्षमा विश्लेषण हुनु जरुरी छ ।

-घ) मानव अधिकारको भाषामा कुनै पनि देशको आफ्नो 'डिग्निफाइड लाइफ र नेसनल सोभरेन्टी हुन्छ । ती देशमा आउने कूटनीतिज्ञको आपmनो मर्यादा र अनुशासन हुन्छ जुन एउटा सिपाहीको भन्दा बढी कठोर रहेको पाइन्छ तर धनी देशबाट गरिब देशमा आएपछि ती कूटनीतिक पाहुनाहरू 'स्टेट विदिन द स्टेट' बन्छन् । उदाहरणका लागि लेखकले केही महिनाअघि मात्र नेपाल प्रहरीका उच्च अधिकारीलाई सीधै भेट्न पाउनुपर्ने जिकिर गर्नु र ०६८ साल -सन् २०१०) मा नेपाली सेनाको ३ तारे जर्नेलको प्रमोसनमा मानव अधिकारको नाममा विभिन्न च्यानलमार्फत भाँजो हाल्न खोज्नु पनि हो । के यो कूटनीतिक सभ्यता हो त ? के नेपालको कूटनीतिज्ञले अमेरिकाभित्र सोही काम गर्ने अमेरिकी सार्वभौमताले छुट देला त ? अरूको सम्मान गरेपछि मात्र आफूले पनि सम्मान पाइन्छ, यसलाई सबैले भुल्नु हुँदैन ।

अन्त्यमा, नेपालजस्तो गरिब देशमा विभिन्न देशको शरणार्थी थुपार्नुभन्दा लेखकले आफ्नै देश र अन्य विकसित मुलुकमा लाने पहल गर्नुभएमा उचित हुनेछ । जसबाट शरणार्थीको कल्याण हुनेछ । यो भनाइ लेखकसँग मात्र सम्बन्धित छ भने नेपालमा रहेका सम्पूर्ण शरणार्थीप्रति मेरो सम्मान र सहानुभूति रहेको छ ।

- डा. बीपी सिंह

काठमाडौं स्कुल अफ ल, भक्तपुर

Citizen Bro le kurai bujhnu bhaena. Hami jasto garib des le tibetan saranarthi haru palna sakdei na. Jaba USA is willing to accept them and the Tibetan refugees are ready to go, why are we (our govt in kathmandu) holding them? All theese TIbetans want is the Home Ministry to issue Exit Visa so that these Tibetans can leave. For long then have been burden on us. Due to them, Nepal is getting too much pressure from all quarters. USA has already issued Refugee Permit to Bhutanese and Tibetans. We let Bhutanese go. Now let these Tibetans go. why we are holding them.

If we cannot give them basic rights, then let them go where ever they want to go. Hamro problem ra uni haro ko problem pani solved.

I hope citizen bro le kura bujyo hola. bekar ma, na wari na pari jasto kina aru lai parne.  simple kura lai ke lambai choudai lekhe ko ho!!!

namaste.