Guy in early thirties looking for a Nepali girl. Email at lostinjupiter@aol.com for more information.

Gallant,

Somewhere in Nepal, in our backyard, there is some kind of tribe where it is considered normal for a woman to marry multiple brothers, but i believe it was rather because of economical needs, as much as it was cultural thing. This, I read in a published article.
Thus, polyandry does exist, forget about other societies - but in our very own backyard.
However, the article also noted that, slowly the villagers are avoiding it little by little.

And in another place, this too in our backyard, the entire village offers their females for a price re. I do not know what category we shall put it as. Perhaps "economical and educational failure" category?

Basically, + personally what I believe is, in general, the stronger the male dominance is, the more prevelant polygyny is - case in point - muslim culture.

But how often have we seen, a male marrying second female without even divorcing the first one? We are still fighting for "citizenship rights in mother's name, and that, in my book, do not give us much face to point fingers at muslim culture - not that you were. Hoina ta?

But Dropadi was a lucky woman, if you would ask me ;). If I was born then, she probably would have had to marry 5 pandavs. :p

Re kya;)

IndisGuise:)

i have a sister who is looking for a nice gentlemen. she is very well educated. well established. if you are interested please send me an email through this thread

mero lagi ta jaha janmiyeko bhaye pani keti ta keti nai ho. bahira janmiyeko keti "hatti" ta hoina ni, kina daraunu pareko yo Gallant lai pheri? Ki musa jasti keti chaahiyo, je bhane pani manne?

If yo ass need a gal, u should be attending nepali partyz n shit....rather than here in these stupid forumz. Ajai Bollywood style mai chha kya ho bro??? love letter, online dating n stuff......comon'...... why u need only nepali gal........aru bhaye hudaina bhanya??? ki NEPAL tirai janu paryo ni bro...i heard NEPAL ma nepali KETI haru tannna chha rey.....ka BOSTON ma khojirako....wrong place bro......open yo brain a lil.....go bak to nepal....... Sajha ko forum ma ta jhanai paudaina......... saab gufaadi haru chan....

Gallant,
You do have a point. At the end of the day, nothing satisfies my hunger better than Dhal and Bhat. However, we have to learn to embrace other cultures. At the end, relationship is between two people. If they understand and love each other, they will live happily.

IndisGuise,
I was thinking about the idea of coaching a family team and have them play against each other. It would be awesome. But again it made me think of other things.
12 kids- Woman has to maintain her body. I think it will be torture for her to try to loose all that baby fat after the pregnancy.
I love kids, i think they are gift from god but again 12.
And you earned some cool points for sticking up to monogamy. and Dropadi was one lucky woman.

IndG and ss74k, Thank you for your response.

Thaha, uassaly bahira janmiyaka keti haru sano-tino hatti barabaka hunchan, tesaile by birth Nepali khojnu parcha,,,,,,I don't wanna to fat or kinda hatti ko size ko keti ke.

gallant,
of course there is polyandry outsdie muslim religion. pahila pahila nepal ma men used to have multiple wives. pahila pahila nai kina janu paryo, my grandfather had three wives (lucky eh?)

Gallant,
Tmile khali haati haru matra dekhe ahile samma?

lfc123,
My uncle has two wives. It is just sick.

nepbloodz bro,,, DJ ko business garcha ki ke ho,,,, Party ma keti milcha bhani advertisment ta gareko haina?

Ani yaha bro haru le ati dherai khoki rahe jasto lagyo, Tak pare tiwari natra gotame bhane jasto ho ki keho......... sake samma Nepli keti lai line marne ani bhayana bhane bidesi keti ko dhamki dine....... hehehe....... I don't understand why is that bollywood style party for?
I guess we are invited to dance in Bhangra, Black Rap and Nepali dohari here in USA........

Gallant, hatti jasti bhaye po aru sanga laspas gari bhane thaha pailalenchha. Musa jasti khojyo bhane ta, "Thaha" (le) napaunegari "Arko" sanga yeta-uta gari to mori le bhane ta barbad bhaihalchha. Tesaile, I go for Hatti jatri keti, bidesh ma janmiyeko bhaye pani hune malai ta!

Nothing wrong with multiple partners.... but just be safe and don't get caught - consequences - "BAD" "Divorce" Some might go nuts and kill you...

its a relative thing hiona ra? i think and u think its sick and ugly from our cultural perspective, but some people (both husband and wives, or wife and husbands) are perfectly happy with thier little situation. so if they are happy, what gives us the right to judge them and tell them they are "sick"?

It is fine if husband and wives are happy with the situation. I didn't mean to judge but from wat i have seen personally the situation was sick and it just made me feel sick.

fair enough.

Yasko matlab thaha lai chokho keti chaiyo jasto cha kikeho. hatti jatro lai kasaile pani chune aatt gardainan bhanthane ko ho ki keho?

ma chameli,
Actually US born keti haru usually Hatti jatra hunchan bhneko po. dekhna ta arupani dekheko chu.....
Ani embracing or assimilating other cultures takes time, we are just like a salad blow now, but our 1st generation- kids might copy their native culture pretty easily wherever they born.

polygyny: yes, I know it was exit before we or our parents born. My great- grand father married to 2 wives too.

I notice polyandry culture is weird, I guess it still partially exits in Muslim culture and somewhere in Ethiopia or Africa. I don't see two brothers marrie same wife in our county. What ever MSG you have posted above.

Gallant hahha US born kti haru hatti jatra hunchan re lau hora i didnt know about that what about US born kta haru. can u pls tell me :P

You can easily know the activity of US born ketihau very easily just like a Hatti moving here and there. They don't hide even if they go with other for sex(?), which is better than not knowing such activities at all. So, I prefer hatti.

I had a email conversation with a family as a result of this thread. So, I would say it can work better than matrimonials.