i am so lonely i feel like crying i cannot sleep i don't have a friend i could die life is a farce

"pray that ur loneliness may spur u into finding something to live for,great enough to die for "----- Daq Hammarskjold.............:)

Hey Mindgames, don't just let the temporary feeling of loneliness get you down.Everybody goes through this phase many times in their life.I guess life would be pretty boring if we have things go our way all the time.

I feel that it is during such period of time that we can actaully hone our fighting spirit or strengthen our mind.

I have read your posting and they are very well written.To keep yourself from being lonely, why not contribute more to this forum so that you are all the time "connected" with Nepalese from all over the people.I believe there are so many who really appreciate your writing.I am one of those who is impressed by your literacy skill.

Beside being connected to people through net, I advise you to "hang" around more with your friends.so that you do not have too much time to let yoiur mind think of lots of silly things.

I know that what I wrote is just a general "stuff" that most people are aware of.Afterall, I am not a expert in the field of counselling people.What I am doing here is just to give you moral support to get you out of that sinking feeling.


Regards,
Bhanja (Singapore)

mindgame, i am guessing you are newcomer to US too right? I went through the same thing when i first came. Gradually you will earn to adapt and start socializing. It happens to everyone. Just be yourself and keep your hands off drugs because i know many who think once they do drugs they will be cool and all and before they know it they dont have money to pay their fees and go back.

Hey, Actually I always wanted to be alone (but not left alone)

thanks ya'll I just had a temporary bout of depression. I might fell better now.
cool_keta it has been 4 years since I came here but time has made matters worse. thanks anyways. i am kicking and alive.

I find it hard to believe a man of your intelligence is lonely and contemplating suicide. Don't you have two hands and some imaginations? Crying is good for you; it cleans your eyes and soothes your soul. Try it. Go out and be a friend and you will find friends everywhere rather than trying to find a friend. As for your contemplation for death, try it, but think hard, you only get on one try.

Good advice from Gunda !!! Mindgame, u need to b strong and hold on.It is only a matter of time that you will overcome the sinking feeling.Just hold on and everything will be be fine.Perhaps you should tell us your location.Who knows some kind soul might be willing to keep you company or include you in their activites.

Like I said b4, I can only give you moral support.U decide what is good for you.


Regards,
Bhanja (Singapore))

Kaha bro haru pani, namai ta mindGames... hami sanga mind games khelchha ni mula tyatikai !!

mindGames...dun let ur mind play games on u :o)
alik u got time...timro poery posting ni ;o)...what is sajha for..to keep idle minds away :o)

ani well u need a fren..well u got me here in sajha ni..;o)..anyone bash me..u be me fren and bash them..and if anyone bash u..i be ur fren and let u fight ur battle..awhile i do nothing..but watch watch watch..maybe with poprcorn and beer in hand ;o).(im the supportive kinda fren :oP)...well i have faith in me frens to handle their own problems..:o)

so lu mero frenship ko haat baadhaying..timro khuki nikaaling kaatnu ko lai hai ...;o)..alike well dun worry ni.,..u wont be able to cut it off..alik dherai experience cha..just wanted to see what kind akhukuri u have ;o) hehe..:oP
dunno what im talking..(as always)time for me to go to sleep..:o)...u too...if u didnt get some sleep ;o)..

cheers..:o)

ok mind games here is the remedy

1. Nothing is the end of the Universe so whatever is the situation just say..so?
2.if you are afraid of failure....or if you fail...so?, you can always learn the lesson and start again, my failure always made me strong and i fought back and won
3.if you feel lonely its not only you there are lots of ppl who are feeling loanly that means youi are not alone.
4.if you are farid of being lonly then participate in discussion like this or any other.
5. Its your life, we are tyhe ruler of yourself, you decide (to fight back) with proudness.
6. Life is wonderful and every seconds of it is worth living.

WHENEVER I FEEL LONELY I DRINK MIRINDAAAAAAAA>>>>>

Thanks all of you guys. Your support works better than Prozac, I should know:)


thanks bhanja, cool_keta, monika, gunda,dogz, dananah, ______ , mirinda..aaaa.

mG.

dude, let the tears flow, like gunda said! first punch, you cry, and stop, second, you say ugh, third, you wonder why it didn't hurt, fourth, you punch back!