Hello all suitable single guys out there, where do you go to meet your other half? I am in my late 20s and after getting so many pressure from my family, I decided to look for my own Mr. right.
Yeah, I was a little on pressure but I also think this is the time. I am well educated and have a stable job. I am not looking for anyway to change my status. And again, I do not think that should be the only reason to get married.
This is my first time looking for my Mr. Right but I do not know how to start. I checked out neaplmatrimonial.com but somehow it looks like just an extended version of shaadi.com for small audience of Nepal.
So if you think you know something about how to proceed, give me suggestions.
Thanks

Loote,

Ke ho para ali thik chaina ni. Boka Boka ganaye jasto lagyo ta malai ta!.

funny  how people suddenly turns  marriage counselor, psychiastric or psuedo dai didi or deep analyzer for simple question. Yes 24 is right age to look for if not immediate marriage otherwise 25,26,27.... before you know it's  too late. Biological clock does not wait friends, sympathy or plus minus. It's all up to you when you feel like and when you think it's right. You're looking for some connection to start, mr. 100% right is not the initial target but desired goal, understood clearly so initiate something all over. Sending text email  is not like face to face so kick the shyness and be brave .

M.P, who obviously did less reading on my post than the village idiot did milking cows...Listen, I say the proven techniques being; going out, meeting people and also the internet except for discussion boards (which I stressed in all of my 5 posts above: Discussion Boards...See it??).  BTW. The last I heard as of one second ago, online matrimonial sites are still not considered discussion boards.  Also, There is no way one could hide their identity in matrimonial sites as one could in in online forums.  For all I care, natali1 could be a he.  If you get what I'm saying, online forums are the worst place to look for prospective mates.  Hell, I could be Brad Pitt or even the King of Nepal here (not just a lowly M.P).  LOL 

Samsara, Online forums may be the worst place to look for prospective mates, but I doubt if they are the worst place to look for *suggestions* on where to meet new people. I thought I had made this distinction clear before, but I guess I failed.

Other than that, may be your are right, but even if Natali1 is a guy, heck, the problem still sounds legitimate to me (and this applies even if someone with alias "Brat Pitt" or "King of Nepal" posts it)! 

Natalie:
I guess it all depends on your nature and how you want to initially interact. Also on your social boundaries like you have pointed out.

I used to live with an American couple where the husband was a lawyer with a prestigious firm and the wife was a designer and their home was like a mansion. I was a paying guest for some time. They seem to be so much in love and so social with their friends and all. But i was really surprixed to learn that they first met online. Even i thought online forums were for losers or with 'out of date' people but it does not seem so. Even look at all indians, they seem to all end up on the Shaadi forums.

The lady told me that she always wanted to met this 'mysterious' man and send him letters and all wordy stuff and thus the online site helped her and she met her 'mysterious' man there. She seemed very sociable in real life and loved parties and all but she prefered other means to find the guy.

So i guess it depends on how much effort you want to take upon yourself and also how easy you feel in interaction. If you do not drink and going to bar/club is not your scene. You do not like Nepali gatherings because all programs seem the same and you do not have big friends circle of Nepalis, then what options do you have.

And honestly, i am sure there are lot of Nepali guys who dislike public gatherings too.

Well, hoping for a 'Happy Ending'. Keep us posted.

hahaha..
of course there are pros and cons with everything in life hoina?

did you guys read that weird news that came out sometime back? like there was this dude (around 23 yrs. old) who fell in love with a woman of her mother's age through internet. they used to write and write and write for each other and they couldn't help falling for each other after few days.
so one day they decided to exchange their photographs. and when they did that, they were in utter shock. turned out that the woman was none other than his OWN MOM hahahahahahahahahahaha...

narayangarh,
boka boka gaanyo re? no wonder since you have made an entry into this thread hahahahahahaha

I have just one point to make.

"Online" isnt the worst place to be looking for someone who you want to start a relationship with. And it isnt an "out-of-date" methodology. In fact, it is getting popular as you have less time to "hang-out"!!!

Personally, i dont see any difference to start knowing each other online/offline. The big difference is : solely, coming to a judgment of the other person online alone. May work, may not work most of times!

One thing for sure that "online" acquaintances help is to filter out your types. Filtering is a hard task to do, at least for a person like me, once you meet the other one. Think you got what i mean.

By the way, i would want the thread starter to know that almost every people on this planet have to go through these relationships flicks and everyone seeks for a better match, not necessarily perfect!

Sheetalb says: "I used to live with an American couple where the husband was a lawyer with a prestigious firm and the wife was a designer and their home was like a mansion. I was a paying guest... "  WTF??

Damn, you've got to be shitting me here.  I still can't fathom why any couple with such a good job and living "in a mansion" would ever opt to have a paying guest (when I think of paying guests, I think of students/young adults who cannot afford much rent).  This makes NO damn sense at all.  I'd expect peeps who live in apartments to have roomates or even in moderate houses to have paying guests (still rare here) but c'mon someone in a mansion looking for a paying guest??  Next time, pls know that there are peeps here who do not follow the herd and will shut down anyone trying to pull wool over their eyes.

 

wondering . how did I miss this thread . hey thread originator, dont look for anywhere .. I am here  .. alone .. not bad looking .. ... mid 20 es .. LOL .. ready to get married .. what about me ???? Let's be the first couple to get married in Sajha..

Natali if you keep searching a guy 2 be your other half than u might make a quick decision and later .....it might not be as u have thought or hoped so be patience and resist the pressure and wait until someone might come along ur way. You might meet him anywhere anyplace but my suggestion would be not to serach him like u need it badly .Good luck and who knows u might meet him infront of ur door or internet or anywhere else.

Natali, You never know where you find him so keep on looking....Everything will happen in the right time. By the way join Group called " Sajhaholics" in facebook. You will meet all the people from Sajha..Who knows may be one of them is your worst half....

Ujj, "Sajhaholics" on facebook??  hahahah...Now lemme check that out as I need to find a few faces I need to knock some sense into.

Samsara, sadly though you find that group funny, I am in that group too. Though I dont know whats happening there most of the times. I hope you dont think about "knocking some sense into me". lol

This chic is trying to find a man, and all of you are fighting!

TYPICAL

sajha is always chaotic but i hope people don't take things here seriously in real lives because that'd be total wack

Samsara - what is your problem?????

She was my friend and she thought it would be nice for me to stay in one of the rooms in her home and enjoy their indoor pool. Especially when her husband was travelling a lot and she used to work from home. Do you have any problem with that ?

Do we have to give justification to everything we post? This guy is such a loser that he seek each words what others have to say so that he can make himself more 'STUPID'.

Sheetalb, this whole thread is now reeking of the highst quality gas...I'm passing out!!   hahahah  As far as days of yore, You've always shitted your way into the sajha threads and now is the perfect opporutuntiy for someone to say, "WE'VE HAD ENOUGH OF YOUR BULLSHIT."  I didn't pick anyone else but you since your posts have always been a little too condesecending on the rhetoric of all sajhaites.  Damn, and now this has got to be the thread that broke the camel's back...You go on to say that you were invited to stay there to enjoy the pool??  WTF?  And you still had to pay when you get invited??  hahaha  Oh, and I presume you must've been paying rent at your other apartment too?  hahaha  Listen, I've lived the past 8 years among the so called "American" peeps and they ALL value their space.  Hell, even my brother in law thinks I am a pest when I visit my sister's place and stay for more than 5 days (and they are my family!!).  C'mon and you lived there??  And for someone living in a mansion why on earth would they even ask you to stay as a "paying" guest (don't they have enough money rather than just rent a room out for a couple hundred dollars?)...BTW, Pls don't pull wool over our eyes by saying that you paid rent there as there is no way on hell I ever see peeps in mansions looking for a roommate (maybe the ones in apartments would look for a roomie but c'mon peeps in mansion looking for roomies??)!!  hahahah  If what you're saying is right then these folks must be so down and out that they're the ones who were among those trapped in the sub-prime fiasco!  hahaha   Get a life instead of shitting about your abnormal life here on sajha.  It's hysterical to see your likes here but even that has a point of tolerance!!  Man, this wannabe smarty has dung for brains!  hahahaa

Rythm, I don't even recollect crossing paths with you, so knocking some sense into you is a statement that cannot be applied as yet...That honor of being knocked down is only for those who think we at sajha were all born yesterday by putting up monolithic size lies here.  LMAO

scorpio..wat better way then to exude manliness other than to fight?esp when a MAN is being "searched" for? is the fighting done subconsciously or intentionally or bit of both etc..who knows eh?

anyways since im here..guess my presence is being felt too..so might as well add a few more..

natali1(havent really checked wats been written here so hopefully im not repeating , repeated sentences does seem to bore one put doesnt it? but then again some "originals" that sprout out are even more yawn inducing than some repetitions? so yeah beware!watever!;oP hehe)

u r trying to look for ur Mr Right hoina? so ur heading towards the right direction? i mean if we dun look(out) will we ever notice/realize he was right there in front of us?that is he is there right in front of u hehe..so yeah keep it up!even if meet so many Mr wrongs..well the more Mr Wrongs u meet, the more u will understand wat might be Mr Right for u? hehe..

anyways enuf of blabbing..just wishing u good luck esp since u already took the 1st step foward! :oD and someone did mention to keep the expectation down a bit hoina? i reckon that really helps..expectation is the cause of all frustrations i tell u! well too high an expectation ;oP hehe..if not without any high aims how are we to know how much we can climb?(pls rephrase!in a rush so cant really think straight ..urghh excuses!:oS hehe)

gday!


ps hi loote bro..seems like ur enjoying this topic hehe..well the opinions u shared are entertaining and encouraging as always!..darn this rush!(batt is goin to die in 10 mins and i forgot to bring my extension haha) cant seem to express wat i want..but u do comprehend?;oP hehe

hi rythm sis! ke cha!thik cha? u better say so!

First of all, Why the hell on girl is looking for bride herself? I believe if girl wants they can melt anyone in this world. If apsara can break meditation of Vishwamitra and lot more sadhu's. I guess the girl who cant even win a guys heart is sad. I have seen in 100 out of 95 percent are average looking girls getting grip of good looking guys. What is wrong with you girl? I though originator must be  male first that's why my comment like that. It is sad if you are true gal and cant find a guy.

Amazing isn't it? It is all in women's hand not in guys hand.